The Boys’ Guide to Growing Up:
Choices & Changes during Puberty

$16.95 $11.87

Written by Terri Couwenhoven, M.S.
isbn 978-1-60613-089-6 / 2012 / Paperback / 6″ x 9″ / 64 pages / B&W illustrations / Ages 9-16



The Boys’ Guide to Growing Up gives boys with intellectual disabilities the facts they need to navigate puberty.

Written at a third-grade reading level for boys ages 9-16 with Down syndrome, autism, cerebral palsy, mental retardation, fragile X, or other special needs, this book is the companion to The Girls’ Guide to Growing Up, also by Terri Cowenhoven. The author, a certified sexuality educator, draws on more than 20 years experience conducting workshops on puberty and sexuality issues with boys, girls, families, and professionals.

The book’s succint text, realistic illustrations, and learning activities enable boys to read the book themselves or follow along with the aid of an adult. Its reassuring, matter-of-fact tone shows boys what changes—inside and out—to expect during puberty, and how to manage them:

  • Growth spurts and bigger muscles
  • Voice cracking and deepening
  • Blemishes and oily skin
  • Body and facial hair
  • Moodiness
  • Crushes, flirting, and sexual feelings
  • Erections, wet dreams, and masturbation

The Boys’ Guide to Growing Up gives practical advice on commonplace concerns such as shaving, what to do about zits, and how to smell nice. More complex and essential topics are covered too, such as how to know when flirting is reciprocated (or not!), how to hide or discourage an erection in public, what information is okay to share with others versus what should remain private, and how to stay safe. It’s a must-have book for boys on the brink of puberty, teens who are in the midst of it, and the adults who care for them.

Written by Terri Couwenhoven, M.S.
Terri Couwenhoven is an AASECT certified sexuality educator who specializes in working with people who have intellectual disabilities, their families, and the professionals who support them. When she is not teaching, she is Clinic Coordinator for the Down Syndrome Clinic of Wisconsin at Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin. Terri has two daughters, her oldest has Down syndrome.

Also by Terri Couwenhoven:
The Girls’ Guide to Growing Up
Boyfriends & Girlfriends
Teaching Children with Down Syndrome about Their Bodies, Boundaries, and Sexuality